Several clients came to me with request of sessions to work with their contact with their husband, to improve their relationship.
After some sessions, i could see that clients came to wether resourcesful point that now everything is good between me and my husband, and some of them come to the point of ” i feel ok now “..
But less of them shared that i have an incredible contact now with my husband or my man and i love it!
Such review only came to me from client whom i worked with her about her work and improvement in work or her career or her contact with her customer.
For sometimes I did not understand why its like this. But after i analyzed and looked at our work history, i just understood that to work with relationship topic is mostly done for something that related to compensational process that person has in her life which she could not manage to see real breakdown in other areas and surprisingly in her growth at work or her job! When its feelings that have “compensational process” very much. in result wether this process will just be forgotten after session or i am ok.
Also its not so obvious how did i am able to look at client flow so that she turn to her resources. But the main key here at least that i see is that specialist need to analyze her client process and understood what she analyze here.. only then its possible to look at client flow. And the second thing is diagnostic skill – a skill to see the connection between things, if specialist do this alot for herself also clients, she can use this skill to look better at client process…
I also understood that person psyche is not build in a way that it could look at resources easily, it is easy to emerge into problems and live in them or create another problems to throw resources. But not to look at resources and increase it and direct it in reality
Now i also see why its difficult for module 1 practitioner to use module 1 to achieve goals, why can’t you look at yourself that you have a strong desire but instead of going to your desire you make a circle to suffer that the desires won’t happen.. When in reality module 1 skill is what person need to create her amazing life and achieve any goals that she wants..
The difficulties are not in module 1 but person inner world can be just so complicated and need time to be able to look at resources and understand what to do and how to live with them… Even for my clients when i showed them about resources and what to do and where they are now, they open their mouth and said “Aaaa… like this”. And also for me when i first time understood how to interact and what to do with resources i was like ” Aaaa.. like this. I have been doing this! I reached several goals! But how can i forgot about this 😆 “
The good 2nd module specialist is the one whom know how to apply module 1 on herself, the one whom understand when she has problems and when she has resources..
The good 2nd module specialist is the one whom strive to let her clients resources open in realization of achievement of their desires in reality..
The good 2nd module specialist is the one whom willingly to growth with her GSR expert in this direction if she herself can’t manage..
And for everyone, work with GSR session for your money topic or with goals in your career (work with contact with boss, your employee, clients, customer..) might help with improvement of relationship..
Go for your most strong resources😁
And thats all.. very interesting observation today.
