This is one of the most popular Google searches. Some people make millions of dollars selling this idea. As a dreamer level 80, I have studied many books by John Kehoe, Tony Robbins, Osho, Esther and Jerry Hicks and many other trying to find a recipe for a right dreaming.
I have came up with some general thought.
There must be a road between you and your dream. The way you get on towards your dream or the dream will come to you.
Usually, when we get in a car, we know where we’re going. If this place is new to us and we do not know the exact road, we pave the way in advance.
Also we can take a friend with us who knows the road very well.
When we start to think about our dreams, we don’t even understand them exactly. We don’t know where to drive to achieve what we want. We just desperately get in a car and drive. Nowhere. Just away from here where we are.
Personal growth coaches say “get rid of the toxic environment”, “leave your partner if he/she doesn’t inspire you”, “change unloved work” and generally fly to the Mars and you will be happy there.
I know many people who, quit their stable job after such brainwashing, being in an inadequate state of mind, left their families because they were afraid of that they would live the rest of their lives with not the right person, immigrated in the middle of nowhere. But as we all know, you can’t run away from yourself. We often get in our cars and go somewhere not because we want to show up at a certain place, but because we want to escape from where we are now. Where can such a journey lead us?
Accordingly, if we want something different, first of all we should determine what it is exactly. Our goal is our destination. It will be more correct to prepare for our journey in advance. Fix your car, get some sleep, take a delicious meal on a trip, install good child seats and go with your partner (if you have one) on the exciting life journey towards your dream.
I am currently on this kind of journey to my dream. To achieve my goals I’m using the GSR method. It’s the whole system that has helped me rethink my life and the choices I’ve made along the way. I was able to discover my true desires and lead a way to them. I don’t want to run away from the places that seems unhappy to me like I used to do. Because with the GSR method I can make any place good for me in just half an hour. Or choose another one but because I really want to go there not because I’m feeling bad here.
GSR is my reliable car I’m riding in with my family. Together we overcome pits and potholes on the roads.
I am no longer afraid of difficulties and ready to take the tightest curve if needed because with GSR I learnt how to handle myself properly.
